Bittersweet

Our last weekend in New York was bittersweet. The bitter part is clear. After a wonderful three weeks in New York it was time to say goodbye to our friends and family for a long time. The hardest part of our life is not being closer to all those we love.  Even writing this post makes me nostalgic for our three weeks in New York and my family. 
The sweet part was all that was managed to cram in that short last weekend that made it special. 
We saw our friends Sol and Dina and their adorable two boys for brunch.

Adam squeezed in some time to insist (as only a toddler can) on getting a dog leash for when he gets his dog that he asked for every day in New York.  In the meantime Uncle Nooj kindly allowed himself to be walked around New York City until we get a dog.  Pretty great uncle. 


We managed to squeeze in one last New York playground trip with both Grandmas and the Jordans. 

And of course we had to squeeze in one more Mets Game. This time we went with loads of people, the Jordans, Grandma Gertch and our friend Matt with his two children Conor and Clara.

We also got to enjoy our new best friend, cotton candy.

Goodbye New York, we love you!

Last day out with the Jordans

For our last day out with the Jordans we decided to take it outside and spend the day at Central Park. 
First up, what else but the Central Park Carousel! Our tour of U.S. Carousels continues. 
With smiles like these can you blame us?

Malcolm was not sold on this carousel and clutched to Aunt Das for most of the ride.

With horse faces like this do you blame him?

It was a beautiful New York summer day so we did what any tourist would do and headed for a rowboat ride.  First of course we had to push our bus up the hill.

But we eventually made it to the boats. On boat one, Aunt Das, Uncle Nooj and Adam. 

And on boat two, our rower.

And the passengers.

Too bad Adam wasn’t on our boat. He was a big help to the Jordans. 

Malcolm and I on the other hand were not as helpful.

It was pretty hot out there so we were happy to hang out in the shade for a bit.

After Central Park we headed downtown for a snack and some relaxation, oh and some bubbles of course.

Oh and maybe a lollipop or two.  Listen people, when on vacation no rules apply. As much sugar and cosleeping as is needed to get us through the trip is ok by me.

We headed home and the adults got dressed up. Thankfully our babysitter Grandma Gertch asked to take our photo or none of us would have thought of it. 

We headed into Brooklyn for our last night out with the Jordans to this amazing restaurant Brooklyn Fare and had one of the most amazing meals ever.  We are forever grateful to the Jordans, not only for treating us to this amazing dinner but for letting us stay in their beautiful home and making us and the boys feel so welcome.

Yup, another zoo

We had time for one last trip to Staten Island and after dragging the boys and our moms to Home Goods, Ikea and Costco we figured we owed them something fun. So we headed to our favorite New York past time! The zoo! I’m sure you all haven’t seen enough animal pictures from our tour of New York zoos so here you go. You’re welcome. Here’s a llama. 
It had been a long time since I had been to this zoo. Randy and I had gone on one of our first dates back in 2005, 10 years ago! It was a lot better than I remembered, or maybe it was because the audience had lower standards. It was the perfect size for us and had an amazing petting zoo. 

Kids were allowed inside the corral to feed and pet the animals. Adam insisted he was ok going in alone.

And of course he was.  He sat and petted this goat for a good 20 minutes.

Malcolm got into it too. At first he was a little nervous but after he got the hang of it he loved feeding the llamas (not so much the more aggressive goats). 

In case you’re wondering, Malcolm couldn’t go into the petting area because we forgot his shoes…it may seem like this happens to us often but it really doesn’t.  The boys have started climbing into the stroller and by the time we leave 15 minutes later when I’ve finally packed up the fruit, snacks, waters, diapers, wipes and am out the door I then realize too late that one or both have no shoes. This was definitely the worst (and last up to now) time. It felt more intense since we actually crossed into a whole other borough and had a whole day out at the zoo with a shoeless toddler. But besides the petting zoo the rest of the time we just let Malcolm run around barefoot and he was perfectly content.

After lots and lots of animal feeding we had a yummy picnic.  Ah, Staten Island semolina bread you are after my carb loving heart.

After lunch it was on to the reptile house with a quick photo op with the grandmas on the way.

Of course we had to try out the carousel. What trip to a zoo is complete without a carousel ride.

Next up the Cheetah house.

And finally on the way out, Adam’s favorite, the horses!

We headed over to Dimitra and Dimitri’s house who got Adam and Malcolm the sweetest cake and made their day!

Dogs, Friends and Tomatoes

Our second trip to Staten Island we headed over to Grandma Gertch’s house and got to see Artie and Rico. Adam and Malcolm have been face-timing with Artie and Rico since they were babies and are both super into dogs! Adam actually asked us every day in New York if we could have a dog. We told him he has to be older, so every time anyone said he looked big, he would turn to us and say “I’m older- now I can get a dog”.

I was so impressed that Adam and Malcolm both went right up to Artie (who is no small dog but very sweet) and of course Rico and wanted to spend the whole morning petting them.

Malcolm pet Artie tons but if he made any move to come closer he would run for shelter on someone’s lap.  Little Rico on the other hand, Malcolm felt totally comfortable following around and insisting on petting the entire time we were there.

After some time with the dogs we headed out to Grandma’s garden to help pick some tomatoes.

Malcolm, that’s a rock not a tomato!

After lots of dog time and some yummy Staten Island bagels we headed to Fran and John’s house for some play time and a yummy dinner.

It was the first time we met their adorable twins. They are just a couple months younger than Malcolm and so sweet. It’s hard to believe we have 5 kids between us!

These two were of course super excited to be reunited.

We all traipsed to the park and the boys played ball for a long while.

Fran, the twins and I chatted while Malcolm played in the dirt.

Vincent is such a sweet older brother. He was so sweet with Malcolm who loved the attention!

Then it was back home for some action heroes. This was the start of Adam’s teenage mutant ‘engine’ turtle obsession.

And here is my attempt to get all 5 kids in one frame.

And these three peanuts.

Clearly Malcolm wasn’t feeling the love.  This might be my favorite Malcolm picture ever. I laugh every time I see it.  

I wish we lived closer and these 5 could spend more time together. We had so much fun and I loved seeing all the kids together. Not to mention Fran and John (and Fran’s mom who made the yummiest eggplant parm) can cook!! That dinner was fantastic! We’ll be back for dinner the second we land back in NY guys!

Durst Dinner Dominoes Day

While we were in New York Daphne and MJ hosted a yummy family dinner. It was Sunday so we decided to have a good old fashioned Italian dinner of pasta.

Both Grandma’s came, Grantie Vangie, cousins Caleb, Kathryn, Kaleigh and Kathryn’s three adorable kids Josh, Peter and Lily.

Adam was so excited to see Josh, Peter and Lily. He went out the day before with Aunt Das and Uncle Nooj to buy balloons for the kids and some yummy Italian pastries.

Everyone came bearing sweet gifts for Adam and Malcolm.

We brought Josh and Peter a jeepney from Manila to give them a taste of home!

Adam and Malcolm had so much fun playing with the boys and Lily! They played board games, cars, cards and more.

Then it was time for our yummy dinner. Grandma Gertch made yummy spaghetti and meatballs and Aunt Das made broccoli rabe orecchiette.  

Why I felt this table photo was sufficient I will never know. I wish I had taken a group picture of all of us.  But at least I got one of the kids. Hmmm…maybe I should have turned the movie off.

At least I got a cute one of these three.

We had time for some dominoes and before we knew it was time for everyone to head home. We get to see my aunt and cousins so infrequently that I treasure every minute. I just wish I had more time to spend with them! It made my day that they all said they read Bosas! Hi guys, love you! It makes all those hours of missing the subtitles on Narcos totally worth it. 

Day out with the Jordans

Before we knew it it was time for another Friday day out with the Jordans. Aunt Das had done some research and had planned a great New York day for us!

We headed out and walked to a yummy Mexican restaurant. There is nothing better than walking in New York. The sidewalks are wide, there are tons to see and the boys love it. I even walked from Union Square to Daphne’s office one day with the boys. It took me over an hour and it was great. If I lived here I would walk everywhere! The subways can be tricky with both boys and a stroller and the elevators are limited and a lot of times it’s just easier to walk.  With views like this we were all for it!
For our day out with the Jordans boys wore their Giants gear in honor of their football sponsor, Uncle Nooj.

I had been to this Mexican restaurant a long time ago with Daphne right before her wedding so it was a blast from the past coming back.  We sat out back in a contained little garden with hardly anyone else and fun plants and flowers to play with. The dream of every parent of a toddler!  Although we could have been anywhere with the Jordans and the boys would love it. They are completely smitten!

 

Sidenote- I was going through these photos the other day and Adam came over to look. He asked me where that photo was from, so I asked him if he remembered. He thought for a minute and replied by asking me if I had a photo of the bug they found.  These two found a bug in the flower pot during the exploration phase of this lunch and Adam still remembered it! Quite a memory on this one!

Then it was on to some yummy Mexican food! Chips, rice and chicken- right in the boys wheelhouse.

Then it was back to the streets of New York to walk to the Childrens Museum of Art, which Daphne informed us is frequented by Suri ‘all the time’. Any place good enough for Suri was for sure good enough for our boys who have a pretty low bar considering there are only a handful of activities in Manila for us to do.

Our first stop at the museum – the big ball pit. Adam still talks about this ballpit today! It made a big impact.

Malcolm was too young for these giant balls so we headed down to the art room to create some art of our own and Adam soon joined us! Malcolm is obsessed with water and dipping things in water so these waterpaints were a dream come true.

This place was amazing! It had everything a child could ever want.

There was a wall of all the things kids always want to touch! Vacuum cleaner tubes, mirrors, light switches and more. If I was a handy person I would make one of these boards for Malcolm. He would love it! That’s ok I’ll just let him play with the actual vacuum cleaner.

There were legos!

Magnets!

A whole table of clay!

We even celebrated Adam’s birthday five months early. Here is the extent of my playdough skills…I know, my talents are endless.

and stamps, markers and more!

Here I am ‘negotiating’ with Malcolm on why he cannot take the dotmaker all around the room and brand all the white walls in sight. It was a tough negotiation and I’m still not quite sure who won that round. 

We had a break for a snack and a cuddle. These two are so cute lately. They hug and kiss all the time.

Then it was time for some more arts and crafts. We moved to the the big kids room and Aunt Das helped Adam make a fancy hat!

We couldn’t leave without playing with some goo!

And then we of course had to stop on our walk home for some ice-cream! 

After a fun full day we headed home and we were lucky enough to have Grandma Yuyu come babysit the boys for us and we got to spend the night with the Jordans.  We headed to Carbone, the most delicious Italian restaurant.

This picture does not do these meatballs justice, but I will forever crave these delicious meatballs…

Thank you Jordans for another great day out!

Ali's Day off

For as long as I can remember when Randy and I travel we keep moving. Even through jet lag and two kids we push on and try to see and experience as much as we can. This works for us and we are always happy when we get home and have done all we wanted to do.  And with this this trip to the U.S. there is so much we wanted to see and pack in and so many family and friends to enjoy.  
But every once in a while it was nice to take some time off from being tourists and get to relax. Especially with so many new toys from all our wonderful family and friends who showered the boys with gifts while we were in the US! 

Next we moved outside and watched these garbage men load 20 dumpsters. It was pretty exciting for Adam who has never seen a real garbage truck. Don’t ask, I have zero idea how garbage is collected in Manila, all I know is in our buidling is that we put it by the garbage area and it disappears. The garbage here is picked through is thoroughly for stuff to sell but that is a conversation for another day.

I love that Adam was so enthralled. I also love that we had no agenda and I was able to watch with him the whole 30 minutes it took these guys to empty all this trash. It reminded me of the days before I went back to work when Adam and I would take long walks for hours.

Then it was off to the playground. The playgrounds in New York never fail- sand pits, water fountains, huge slides! Not a bad day off!

One Day – three boroughs

We started our day with some morning cuddles with Aunt Das in Manhattan. Always a great way to start the day! 
Then it was on to a ferry to Staten Island! It was Adam and Malcolm’s first time on the ferry which was pretty special for Randy and I who grew up on that ferry going back and forth to the city. Adam had learned about the Statue of Liberty in school and was so excited to see it in person. 

Malcolm was excited too! What? You don’t think he looks excited? Oh, he was!

Before we knew it we were on Staten Island!

We headed out to take a walk on the boardwalk with Grandma Yuyu! The boardwalk was such a fun place to visit while we were there.  Randy and I grew up in the same neighborhood and would hang out on that boardwalk all the time! There used to be concerts in the summer we would go to with all our friends and sometimes (cover your ears mom) I would sneak out past curfew to hang out with Randy and friends by the beach. When Randy and I first started dating (post law school and way past breaking curfew days) we went for a walk on this very same boardwalk and decided to try dating and not just being friends. The rest, my friends, is history.

Adam loved the beach and would have walked all the way to the end with Grandma!

But we had an important shopping date at Costco.  Before our big shopping extravaganza we stopped at Old McDonald to fuel up!  When in Staten Island… I am going to spare you the Costco shopping pictures which involved Randy and I stocking up on whatever we may need in bulk sizes for the next two years in the Philippines and our moms trying to entertain the boys with anything they could find. 

Then it was back to Manhattan to pick up these two crazy cats and head to Brooklyn for dinner with our friends Erika and Henry who we haven’t seen since we went to the Philippines!

We had a yummy dinner in Brooklyn and then headed over to Ample Hills for some delicious ice-cream. When in Brooklyn after all!

Zoo Number Two

We of course had to go to the Central Park Zoo while we were in NY.  This was always one of my favorite zoos. It’s small and right in the center of the city. My BFF Gabby used to work right there and get in for free so we spent more time then two ladies with no kids probably should have but what can I say. I find zoos calming. 
Adam and Malcolm love them too! Adam especially loves a zoo map.  He loves directing us. He even learned right and left this summer! 
We met our friends Fran and John at the zoo with their oldest son Vincent. It’s so amazing to me that Randy and I met Fran in elementary school when we were just a couple years older than Adam and Vincent.  Adam and Vincent hit it off like they had known each other forever. Something in the genes I guess 🙂 They were just programmed to be BFF’s too. 
While we waited for our friends to arrive we watched the seals swim around. 

Malcolm was a little scared so Adam led him over to explain that the seals were behind the glass and couldn’t come any closer.

Vincent and him mom and dad arrived and they immediately set off in search of tigers and bears. I had promised Adam he could see polar bears, but apparently there haven’t been polar bears at the zoo since 2013, who knew. Luckily there were some grizzlies to keep these two entertained.

After some penguins, monkeys and bears we headed off to have a snack.  I have to say watching these two was hilarious. Even when they spilled water everywhere and didn’t eat a bite of their hamburger the cuteness factor made up for it.

I call this one, ‘what do you mean I can’t make farting noises in his face, see how much he loves it!’

After lunch and a much needed coffee it was time to go play soccer in the park. Adam had gotten a new soccer ball at Ikea and he was super excited to try it out.

The day was topped off with some ice-cream. Is there anything better than an ice-cream shared with a BFF? I don’t think so! Fran, I think you may need to move to Manila! We have ice-cream here! 

And here is what happens when you try to take a picture of kids who are eating icecream,,,,

 
and playing with sticks….

Vincent we’re waiting for you to check out the Manila zoo!