Fox Temple

Our second day in Japan we hopped on the bullet train and headed to Kyoto.  The train system in Japan is awesome! The trains are frequent, clean and on time. We headed to the station and got on a train and an easy three hours later were in Kyoto! Ok, maybe it was easy because we had no toddlers to entertain.

We got to Kyoto, checked in to our hotel and headed out for some dinner.  Walking around Kyoto everywhere you look is beauty.

 

We stopped for a pre-dinner snack of cheese balls. Not my favorite food item but it was fun to walk around and see different food stalls.


To follow up our cheese ball appetizers we headed for a pre-dinner drink and then to an amazing sushi meal. 

Here is what I love about Japan.  This whiskey bar has been around for 97 years and serves only whiskey. It’s run but a father and a son who select the best whiskeys to serve.  I think we should go back for their 100 year anniversary.

Third course of our sushi meal was this fish.  For all you who know me, I’m a bit of a picky fish eater. But I had promised myself to try everything in Japan.

As you can see I loved it! The best part was the salty tail.  I asked what this was but they didn’t know the name.  All I got was a sort of river trout.  Mmmmm, now I’m hungry and craving this fish!


The next morning we woke up early and headed to Fushimi Inari Shrine or as I can actually pronounce – the Fox Temple. 

 This temple has thousands of these orange gate all lined up. We started walking and they just kept coming.

I saw these two and I thought of Aunt Das- I figured this would be us in 50 years on our girls trip.

There was a spot were you could write a wish on a fox and leave it.  We left one for Adam and Malcolm, for a small fee of course.

Japan, can we move in?

The week before we left for our 6 week trip to the U..S Randy and I were able to sneak off for a week in Japan. Randy and I have always wanted to go and we knew it would be much easier without kids. Grandma Gertch took amazing care of the boys and they had the best time!  
I have never been any place like Japan! It’s really such an amazing place. We flew into Tokyo and spent the night there before we headed to Kyoto. 
Randy and I kept a list of the things that we loved about Japan.  It grew and grew, here are the highlights. 
1) You get a wet towel before every meal, even a fast food place. At a fancy place its steaming hot. 
2) There is hand sanitizer everywhere!! With two toddlers who touch everything this was awesome. 
3) There are wide sidewalks and streets and its so easy to walk everywhere. 
4) The toilets are as amazing as everyone says.
5) The food is even more amazing than they say!
6) When you asked a Japanese person a question and and the answer was no or they didn’t know the answer their face would fall and they really seemed so upset.  I almost felt bad asking a question when the answer was no.  They would then say sorry 10 times.  This was for everything, when you asked directions, when you asked if they sold something in a store, if there was an ATM machine, anything!  
7) The Japanese pay painstaking attention to every little detail. This applies to everything, food, architecture, botany, temples. This also applied to the most thoughtful thorough answers with a printout and important points highlighted. We would ask the hotel lobby a question, they would say one minute.  They would come back in  one minute with the most detailed complete answer. 
8) Everyone waits for the walk sign to cross the street. Even on an a completely empty street with no cars or people anywhere around no one crosses until the walk sign is up. 
9) There is an amazing train and rail system which allows you to get EVERYWHERE and it leaves exactly on time! We got on our the train from Tokyo to Kyoto that was supposed to leave at 11:30.  I turned to Randy at 11:29 and said this train is going to leave late. 30 seconds later the train pulled out of the station! 
10) Every window is completely spotless!
11) The taxi drivers wear white gloves and keep the taxis spotless. 
12) When you ask where the bathroom is they insist on leading you right to the door. They would never just tell you to go down the hall and turn left. 
13)  You open the bathroom door and the toilet seat cover lifts right up. 
14) People dress so well! No one wears T-shirts and shorts. They were blouses and slacks. 
15) Everyone has an Iphone 6.  Apple must have made a Yen fortune when they came out. 
This country is just so cool! When Randy and I tried to think about what we didn’t like about Japan….it took us a while and here is what we came up with.  The hotel rooms are on the small side and the Yakitori has cartilage.  After a whole week there these are the only two things we could think of.  I would live here in a million year

So long Manila!

We’ve been so busy!! Lots to fill you in on. We are in New York as I write this and I have lots to write about. 
But first, some snippets on our last few weeks in Manila before we went away for 7 weeks in the U.S.!
High on the list of the many, many to dos we had before we left for our long trip were haircuts for the boys. They sure needed them! Look at these scruffy boys!

 

Then we were off for haircuts!  While we had some tears from Adam for his first haircut this little peanut loved it! He hopped right up into the car and let the guy cut his hair.

 

This guy is an old hat. He got right in and watched Cars while his hair was cut.

 We were lucky to have Grandma with us for our first haircut!

We had to take some pictures to show off our new hair! Here is my teenager!

Our friends came to visit with their new little baby! Adam loved him and wanted to hold him. He was so cute and so into little Alden. He wanted to hold him and cuddle him the whole time!

Before we knew it was time to pack! Randy and I headed off to Japan for a week and the boys had a fun week in Manila with Grandma!

One Cool Cat

I blinked and all of a sudden my Malcolm is 18 months old! Sometimes I look over at him and I just can’t believe this big boy is my teeny little baby!

Malcolm has been saying Mama, Dada, Ada (Adam) and this for while now. But just recently he’s added some new words! It’s so exciting to hear him and see his little personality develop.  New words include nana (banana), Grandma, anima (animal), salad (don’t ask), mmmmm for when he sees a cow and arf for when he sees a dog. He looooves dogs and literally screams with excitement when he sees one. He was scared of them but when we adopted my friends dog for a weekend he became a total convert. He’s obsessed with the little Rottweiler puppy doll Uncle Ari got for Adam. He’s actually obsessed with most stuffed animals. The opposite of Adam, who only recently for the first times has started sleeping with a Harrods cat our friend brought from London. That should be easy to replace if lost….just involves a quick trip to London.

Malcolm is such a strong little boy. He knows what he wants but he’s also different than Adam in that he picks his battles.  He’s more laid back about things like switching off the bottle, taking baths (Adam loves them but has gone through anti bath stages), playing with toys. But let me tell you, try to convince him to do something he doesn’t want to do and it will take you a while!

He loves walking places with you. He will walk over to you, take your finger and lead you everywhere. His favorite thing to do is pick a book from the bookcase, hand it to you and plop down in you lap to listen.  He LOVES books! He loves to pick a book to read before bed. He will listen to his book faithfully, but when it’s time for Adam’s bedtime book he’s off the bed and playing.

Every time he sees me getting ready to leave for work he heads over and tries to put on his shoes, adamant that he’s coming with me! He loves to dance and has pretty good rhythm! He gets that from his daddy. He will dance to anything, music in the elevator, the start of Magic School Bus, a cell phone ring.

He hasn’t had a haircut yet but we’re pretty much ready. When he goes to the bathroom he pats his butt until you change him. Maybe he’s ready for potty training 🙂 He holds his hands up for wiping when they’re dirty but to be honest dirt does not bother this one.  Randy calls him pig pen as he is often covered with food, markers, stickers, snots.

He wakes up every morning at 5:30 on the dot and calls- Mama! Mama! in his most robust voice as if it is obvious to the world that I should immediately respond. Then he flings all his stuffed animals out of his crib in protest when I don’t immediately come fetch him.

He copies everything his big brother does,from climbing up the back of the couch, to dragging suitcases around the house to being sassy. He can’t understand why he can’t also go to school every morning, ride a bike and walk everywhere like his big brother.

He has a sweet heart. He walks over sometimes just to give me a hug or a pat. He loves to give kisses and when his brother is sad (aka – throwing a fit) he immediately comes to see how he can help.

I can’t wait to see what there is to come! He’ already pretty cool, I’m not sure Manila is ready for you Malcolm!

Sunny Days and not so Sunny Ones

We woke up in Puerto Galera and it was luckily a sunny day! It’s rainy season here in the Philippines so you never know what you’re going to get.  We had a nice relaxing breakfast with coffee. Oh wait, scratch that, we swallowed down our coffee and food before this rascal got out of his highchair. 

Then I took a quick bathroom break, which looked like this from the inside. And no, I have not gone to the bathroom alone in three and a half years, thank you for asking. This is probably the closest I’ve gotten.

Then it was time for another boat trip! I had arranged a local boat to take us around to a couple beaches, so off we went.

Don’t worry we wore our life vests.

And toook our obligatory nap on the boat.

Boy oh boy was this beach worth it! There was not a sole on it but us, the water was bathwater warm and there were tons of fun things to look at on the beach.

All in all a great day! The next morning the first of three typhoons started to roll into the Philippines. We got on probably the last boat out of Puerto Gallera and made it back safe and sound thanks to our awesome boat driver. It was definitely an adventure! It was great to spend the weekend away with Grandma.

We made it back but they couldnt go all the way to the pier where our car was parked, which meant some waiting under the only cover we could find. But we made it home safe and sound and basically hibernated the next 5 daysa until the rains stopped! At least we squeezed in one beach day!

Doesn’t this look like fun 🙂 At least we were dry! And there were chickens all around to keep Malcolm amused.  That’s the reality of rainy season here, one second you’re walking on a beautiful beach collecting seashells and the next you’re huddled under a motorcycle hutch distracting your one year old with chickens.

Beaches, Boats and Donuts

With Grandma here visiting and daddy in Jakarta for the week for work we decided to head to Puerto Galera for the weekend.  It was a rocky ride but Adam hardly noticed.  He loved every second of it. Malcolm fell asleep about 5 minutes it, like he did on every boat all weekend.  

Malcolm’s face here!

We got there and relaxed for a bit and had some lunch. 

Then we had time for a walk on the beach before dinner!

The one time all weekend Malcolm didn’t fall asleep on a boat!

Quick shower and back to the beach for dinner.

Perfect sunset to end the day!

5 years

5 years married. 

5 years celebrating our joys

5 years getting through the hard parts together.

5 years laughing and talking, usually over a drink!

5 years growing our family.

5 years moving all over the world and taking on new challenges.

Happy 5 years pumpkin! 

Lazy Sunday!

As fun as Palawan was it was so nice to get home to my three boys. What does a lazy Sunday look like in the Ali home, you ask?
Well we always start with some drumming. Ok not really, but we recently picked up a vintage drum from Mindanao (southern Philippines) and it’s become a favorite spot. 

One of Malcolm’s new words is ‘ish’ for fish, he loves fish and loves this pillow.

Then on to pretzels!

Just don’t get in the way of Malcolm and his pretzels!

No really! Do not get in the way of his pretzels!

Fortified with pretzels we moved onto some paintings. Kate and George sent us an adorable little bag with a doggy on it that we decorated!

Happy Sunday!