First Days

Before we knew it summer ended and the school year began. We prepped by buying a whole lot of masks and hand sanitizer. But school was in person!! Every day for Malcolm and Miral and half of the week for Adam.  I was worried about the boys wearing masks all days, being at school, and everything. But everyone came back happy and ready for the new school year. After 4 months of home school we appreciated school so much more. 

Then we headed out to wait for the bus. 

Before we knew it the boys were home and we went out for lunch at our favorite cafe. 


This one had her first day of school next. She was so excited to be back at school and with her friends Laura and Naim!

She was also excited and insistent on picking out all her clothes for school every day!

Miral also had her new bike from Laurel and Beckham to ride to school!

Smiles all around this school year! 

Vacation Dreaming

We came back from Greece and decided to keep living like we were on vacation! First up, long coffee mornings at our favorite coffee place in Kyiv- Raven Cafe. 

Homemade frappes, almost like being on a beach in Greece….

Clinging to summer attire

We decided to go on day trips to explore parts of Ukraine we hadn’t seen before. 

Day trips to the pool club 

We tested all the noodle soup in Kyiv, pretending we were in Vietnam. 

Then we decided we were still in vacation withdrawal and wanted to go away for the  longweekend so we packed up the car and headed to Odessa down south in Ukraine. It is usually a 5 hour drive buuuuuuuut we hit traffic and it ended up taking us 9. We were so excited and hungry when we finally arrived. 

We headed right out for dinner and found a yummy outside restaurant with pasta. 

Then we headed out for a walk to explore Odessa at sunset. So many pretty places to see.  

We found some spray paint street art that the kids were super into and we had to get some.  

Happy customers. 

We headed back afterwards and had some relaxing time. 

I snuck in a long run around Odessa the next morning and found some fun Abe Lincoln art. 

Then it was the Ali’s favorite part of vacation, hotel breakfast!

Followed by a beach trip. 

After a day in the sun we dressed up and headed to dinner outside of the philharmonic theater. 

The next morning we headed back to breakfast before we headed home, ready for our next vacation. 

 

Peppa Pig and Pork Tacos

 For Miral’s birthday we had a special day at home and then a BBQ at the Embassy with our friends. It was great to be able to celebrate with friends. We kept it small and invited our bubble and were outside and it was a great day. We are pretty lucky to have the Embassy to BBq and hang out in and a group of friends who we can spend time with during Covid. It was the smallest birthday any of the kids have ever had and was really nice and almost more special that we could have a small celebration in such a hard time. Miral wanted a Peppa pig party and since I love a theme we decided to serve a few different types of pork. We all joked about naming the pork tacos after Peppa’s family, but decided others might not get the Ali sense of humor….

But first we had a morning celebration on Miral’s real birthday. 

Miral got a new bike but Covid Ukrainian ordering meant it was a few sizes too big…She was still excited and we just have to hope she still likes Paw Patrol in two years…

Then it was present time!

Pancakes with faces

More presents!

We made a cake for Miral’s actual birthday and everyone loved it. 

The next day we got ready for the Peppa party!

Three years of Miral

How has it been three years since Miral was born?? (yes I know this post is 9 months but we still need to celebrate her turning three and catch ourselves up to current times).  In honor of Miral’s 3rd birthday here are 36 months of my little Miral.  I was aiming for 36 pictures but you know how it is once you go down memory lane (tear). How could I choose only 36 so get ready for a whole lot of Miral and because who doesn’t want to see a whole lot of Miral. 
But first some of the things that Miral does that I love more than anything at this age- 
1- You call oatmeal -oatmilk. This makes me laugh every time. 
2. You call me back in to retuck in your leg or arm after bedtime if anything is poking out.
3. You LOVE having your hair braided and you always come down asking – Do I look like a princess? Yes Miral, you always look like a princess. 
4. How when you wake up post nap (oh, the good old days when you used to nap) and you would want to cuddle. 
5. When you burp and you love to burp you say- Guse me loudly. 
6. When I ask you a question, she thinks about it and then she says hmmmmmmmmm……YES! (she was always going to say yes, but likes to make you wait for it). 
7. You LOVE to scooter and you are pretty darn good at it. 
8. You are a great eater, you like kale and tomatoes and all sorts of food that your brothers would never have eaten at your age. 
9. You are an awesome drawer and drawer lots and lots of pictures, for us, for Maria, for all your friends at school. 
10. You insist on picking out your own clothes and putting them all on by yourself, no matter how long it takes.
And now for the main event, lots and lots of pictures. 
Last day Miral was inside my belly! This was taken on our way to the hospital. 

I had forgotten how Malcolm used to build nests for Miral.  He would collect everything in the room and put it around her to make a nice comfy nest.  At the time I was so tired, didn’t want to wake the baby, thinking about how I had to put everything away that I completely missed the sweetness of my little Malcolm wanting to make a warm safe space for his new baby sister despite still working on making space for in his heart.  He still takes care of her in the sweetest, gentlest way with loads of hugs and kisses.

As for Randy he was a goner from the second he looked in Miral’s big blue eyes. He pretends to not let her get away with stuff….but I mean come on, it’s pretty hard with this little face.

First Halloween, Miral was the cutest little bunny. 
Helping to decorate her first Ali Christmas tree

 

First smiles

Hawaii!

Adam used to love these photo shoots so much. Its funny, he used to love them when Malcolm was a baby too. Malcolm needed a bit more persuasion. 

First Thanksgiving in Hawaii

As we headed to the US for home leave and left Hawaii, first time for winter clothes for this little one in California. Could she be any cuter in a hat!

First time meeting cousin Laurel. Only three weeks older than Miral, they are destined to be bffs!

California sun came out in Pebble Beach. 

Meeting cousins Tamer and Grant for the first time in Detroit! These three are the cutest, can’t wait to see them play again now that they’re all older!

Big hugs for Grandma Yuyu in NY

Every time these two hold hands my heart grows. I can’t take the cuteness

Laurel had already perfected the roll when we saw her and she didn’t let Miral forget it…

Christmas at the Jordans

Back to Manila. Daddy headed to Pakistan and we settled back into Manila life. 

First pool day

Rolling over

In Boracay on Daddy’s first trip home to visit 

Teeth!

Malcolm’s 4th Dinosaur birthday party!

Getting read to

Nine months out

Hair long enough for bows!

First birthday

 Taiwan trip with dadd

Oman with daddy

Back in Manila and hair long enough for pony tails! 

Packing up to leave Manila for Washington DC

U.S. bound

Cold pumpkin patch

Halloween as a Peach from A League of Their Own

Sharing Aunt Das’s lap with Baby Beckham
 Visiting mommy, daddy and Adam’s old house in Washington DC

Thanksgiving with Laurel
Another Ali Christmas tree decorating party

Artistic expression

Early morning cuddles with mommy 

Christmas blues
Christmas with cousins 

NYE 2019

Braids! 

Winter snow

Hide and seek
Ice-cream is her favorite

Growing out of car sears 

New Christmas kitchen

Cuddles with Malcolm

Daddy’s home!

Ready for baseball season

I have never met someone more obsessed with toothpaste. If I turn a blind eye for one minute she will already have sucked down the whole tube!

Easter smiles

Cereal with raisins or dinner

New yellow dress

Weekend away in Charlottesville

Spring in DC

Crazy hair 

Holding hands and making mommies heart melt

Library play, boy do I love libraries in the US!

Early morning smiles

Fountain play in our old Capitol Hill neighborhood

Terrible twos are coming….

Weekend away in Shenandoah, pants optional.

Sneaking all the smore chocolate when we’re not looking

Ready for summer in DC!

But getting ready for winter in Ukraine.

Weekend in NY with Laurel

celebrating Fourth of July in the Outerbanks

Loves to color all over herself…
TWO! 
Saying goodbye to the warm weather and DC. 


Picking apples 

Flying to see daddy in Slovenia
Reunited with daddy!
Hot tubbing in Slovenia
Hanging out in our new home in Kyiv
First day of school

Getting ready for Ukrainian winter.
The look we get when Miral is not amused. 

Thanksgiving!

Christmas

Christmas pageant


Finally, Christmas day


Covid lockdown

Mother’s Day flower picking

Bike riding

Baking cookies
Archery
Bike riding 
Discovering the best croissants in Kyiv

Covid chic

THREE!

Acropolis or bust

When we arrived in Athens we headed right out to explore a bit before meeting our friend Elianna for dinner, but it started raining, so we hopped on a sightseeing bus and it ended up being the best rainy activity out there! These three LOVED it!

Miral even squeezed in a little nap. 
The rain stopped but Miral’s nap didn’t, so we stopped to have an aperitif.

Athens is one of my favorite cities of all times and there is nothing better than being able to hang out there with my family, enjoying the light and the feeling I get only in Athens.  

Then we were off to meet my best friend in Greece, Elianna for dinner. I have known her since I was a baby and I love seeing her when I am in Greece. I usually see her family too but because they are older and because Covid, we only saw Elianna this time. She always knows the best new restaurants in Athens. We had a yummy dinner out and crammed in a year of catching up in a night and it felt like we had just seen each other, as it always does. 

On our last day in Athens we took the kids to the Acropolis. I have always wanted to take them and it was amazing. There was no one there, no line for tickets and no crowds! It was hot (as it always is on the Acropolis) and Miral definitely hit grumpy toddler stage pretty quickly but thankfully Randy carried her on his shoulders for a while. I still remember going to see the Acropolis when I was a child and I hope the kids remember this when they are grown as well. It is pretty special to see it up close! This was all I wanted to do with the kids in Athens and the boys were great, despite the heat and they loved it and I know Miral deep down loved it too, despite the many, many, many complaints. Chance of a lifetime and even more amazing to see it with so few people around!

This might be my favorite picture ever. One of the seven wonders of the seven wonders of the world is right behind him and Malcolm instead was enthralled for a good 20 minutes by a pile of ants….this is Malcolm in a nutshell. 

After a lot of grumpiness and complaints this one was pretty excited to leave the Acropolis.

We all had some ice-cream to cool off!

Followed by one last delicious taverna meal in Plaka where the boys got their second coke of the trip to celebrate our last meal in Greece. 

I am going to miss the food the most….

And the naps on me!

One short masked trip and we were home, missing Greece but excited to see our friends again and celebrate Miral’s third birthday!

The opposite of Paros

After a week of exploring Paros and checking out every beach on Paros we decided to take a short ferry to Antiparos and see what it was all about. 
My band of explorers in their pajamas
Lazy mornings

 

Finally we got out of the house and got on the ferry, ready for our long trip. We docked 6 minutes later.

 Well, there has never been a trip more worth those 6 minutes. Antiparos was even more beautiful than Paros. It had these amazing empty beaches with beautiful views. 



Ah, beach naps. 

Not only did Antiparos have the most amazing beaches but they had an amazing fish restaurant right next to the beach where you could pick out your fish from a fish tank! 



Thankfully there was also an ice-cream freezer or we may not have gone back. 
and thankfully this was the most delicious lunch so Randy wanted to return too!

After lunch we all took our full bellies back to the beach and yes flamingo came too. 
Family selfie into the sun
 
After the long 6 minute ferry ride home we even had time for a sunset swim before dinner. 
The rest of the week we took that six minute boat ride every day and hung out on Antiparos. Our last day was spent on Soros beach, the most amazing beach we have ever been to with the most amazing restaurant right there. 
Yum!

After two weeks of nagging us for a coke, we even let the boys have a coke for their last day of vacation!

A Fanta for Miral
And for us, delicious rose from Greece! 

And just like that our two week island vacation in Greece came to a close. 

But don’t worry we still had a whole weekend in Athens before we had to leave and we packed it in! But first up we had a long ferry ride. The boys were great and wore their masks the whole 6 hours…Miral took a lot of snack breaks…

16 snacks from the snack bar, three red icee drinks and one unicorn from the gift shop later we arrived in Athens. 

Ice-cream, sunsets and beach naps

After six months of Covid lockdown we made the decision to go to Greece for a vacation. It was the first time we traveled in Covid times and the anxiety and mask wearing made the three hour flight seem endless. I was pretty nervous the entire time, convinced we would get Covid, but I have to say the flight was mostly empty, the fight attendants made wear their masks the entire time, we were tested upon arrival and we were required to wear masks the whole time on the ferry. It was a long journey, especially convincing this one to wear a mask, but we made it and it was worth every second!
 
We arrived and all took a deep breath!
The first villa we stayed at had these great views. We got dressed up and headed out to dinner. 


Morning snuggles

Alternating morning runs were made possible by pool time

Then we headed into town for a delicious fish lunch and beach time. 
This right here is the bean dish that made randy realize he loves big white beans!
Then it was back home to get dressed up and headed to dinner. We ate mostly at home in Greece and sometimes out but no matter what we always showered off the beach and dressed up. My favorite thing to do on vacation. 

Next day more of the same. Having a pool makes it so much easier. The kids are amused all morning and we can take turns running. 
Then it was into town for some delicious gyros.
And ice-creams because when in Greece.  
More morning snuggles
The next day we headed to the center of the island to explore a new city and eat lunch before the beach. Adam wanted to take some pics so here is a day through the eyes of Adam.
I got the camera back just in time to take some pictures of this pretty town. 
We all were in need of some cold drinks and lunch after exploring the town so we headed to a yummy lunch, before you guessed it – heading to the beach. 
The next day more of the same. Can you tell we like a calm routine in Greece?
Then it was back home for dinner and sunsets. 
We had this sunny balcony where we ate most of our breakfasts and dinners and played loads of games. 
More pretty morning run views made possible by a pool and a 5 dollar flamingo I bought at the grocery. 
Then, you guessed it lunch followed by you guessed it more beach time. 
All dressed up for a bbq dinner at home.
These three were the happiest with ice-creams every day from these little freezers.
I was the happiest with beach naps, which are my favorite thing ever. 
Beautiful sunsets and views were just what we all needed. 

I hope you have a fun adventure

Somewhere along this last school year, when we moved two months into the school year, the boys started a new school in a new country, again, and we had 4 months of home schooling thrown in there during a pandemic quarantine, Adam finished second grade and Malcolm finished kindergarten. 

It wasn’t the school year any of us thought it would be but it ended up being special in its own way. It was the first school year for the boys in Ukraine, the first school year they had to bring snow pants in to be allowed outside, the first school year they were both together at the same elementary school. It was the school year we ALL learned how to use Zoom, how to work together in one dining room, and how to do arts and crafts project with limited supplies. It was the school year that Malcolm learned to read and how plants grow. His teacher Ms. Jackson is one of the kindest souls I have ever met. Poor Malcolm cried a bit when he realized he has to switch teachers next year and I might have teared up a bit myself. It was the year Adam learned how Google hangouts works, got a school email address and was able to stay in touch with his friends even though we weren’t allowed to leave the house. He learned how to make Google slide presentations that put mine to shame. He learned multiplication and how to write stories. He takes after his mother and loves a good run on, but who doesn’t. I am so proud of these two boys. They adapted like true foreign service kids and we decided we should celebrate their last day of school. While home schooling has its fair share of challenges and my patience was definitely not on the the level of Ms. Jackson, I loved seeing what the boys were learning and getting to be a part of it for this small moment in history and we all agreed a party was necessary. 

For the last day of school there was a big assembly. Balloons were hung, special breakfasts were made, we all dressed up and my technical skills were stretched for the millionth time in 2020 and I managed to connect my computer to the TV so we could have a big screen assembly. Malcolm was chosen by his sweet friend Gunes to say a few words of goodbye before she moved back to Turkey. Adam won an award in music, that he definitely gets from Randy and we said goodbye to Adam’s second grade teacher, Ms. Nikki. All in all a great graduation day and definitely a school year we will all remember!

This sweet note from Adam to his teacher who is leaving to teach in Indonesia is just the very best. “I hope you have a fun adventure and bring your kindness with you everywhere” This is probably my biggest hope for all of my children throughout their lives. I hope they never stop having adventures and thinking of this crazy life we live as one big adventure and always, always, always bring kindness with them everywhere. I’m not crying, you’re crying…

Dandelions everywhere

While the Embassy BBQs were great, we still had a lot of Covid vacation hours to fill.  It was spring and starting to get warm so we started spending more and more time outside. First up, we needed some haircuts and with Covid numbers on the rise in Ukraine we decided to go to daddy barber shop. There were some tears and complaints, but the haircuts looked great and the boys were ready to go into spring with a new look!

Pre-haircut

During

Post

No haircuts but here for moral support!

We spent a lot of time scootering and roller skating outside after our zoom school calls. 

Dandelion picking is s a big part of spring in Kyiv. There are dandelions everywhere in spring. More dandelions than I have ever seen! There was even dandelion fuzz all over the streets at one point!

One of the best spring days we had was a day that we decided to play hooky from home school and work and headed to a park. Everyone needs a field trip every once in a while. We headed to a large park, took a long walk in the forest and then had a picnic. I remember this day so vividly even thought it was last year. It was when all of Ukraine was still locked down and it was one of the first times we ventured out to do something new. We were nervous but it was the safest activity we could do. We were outside and there was no one around. We walked for hours in the park and loved it!

Sometimes a change of scenery is all you need before you go back to this…

But it wasn’t all work. We kept finding fun things to do at home. 

For posterity sake, this is the day I finished my first EER as a Foreign Service Officer! An employee review that people in the State Department take very seriously. A year on the job….what a crazy year!

We kept making pizzas on Fridays, sometimes in costume!
And baking all the time of course!

But the weather started to get warmer and we were able to get outside to parks more and more.  

In case you can’t tell Randy’s face here is saying- yes Fo, I loooooove when you take photos of me sitting on a log 🙂

I was able to work outside in the sun. 

Miral started her accounting job 

And as the weather got warmer all the restaurants started opening up and even set up summer terraces, which meant we could go out to eat! 
And go to outdoor birthday parties (small Covid friendly ones).

Is there anything better than getting paid for work but only having to go to the office part time!? I switched roles from issuing visas (which was closed during Covid and meant no office time at all for months and months) to helping Americans which meant going into the office every other week.  It was nice to have more time to spend at home with the kids but also nice to go back to work semi regularly, see people and interact with friends. It was also awesome to be able to put on work clothes again 🙂

These two were pretty excited to start eating outside!
Still looking cute in a mask!

We decided to start this puzzle as a family (spoiler alert, I finally finished it 6 months later by myself…)

We got some new sneakers because the boys keep growing like crazy!

We celebrated Maria’s birthday with dinner outside at Chichikos, our favorite Georgian restaurant. 

Hair kept growing and soon it was that dreaded time again….(no child was injured during this haircut)

We discovered the best croissant place and became regulars! 

We got to walk around and see more of Kyiv. 

We got to go out by ourselves without kids! No negronies were harmed in the taking of this photo. 

And we had lots of lazy mornings with snuggles and coffees in bed- by far my favorite things during Covid, lazy mornings with extra time for coffee and snuggles. 

Before we knew it was Mothers Day! I woke up to loads of treats. First off a beautiful plant. Hydrangeas are by far my favorite flower. It was the flower I used on the tables at our wedding and I love them in every color! When I am old and retired and have my own house with a garden, I am going to learn how to grow hydrangeas!
I had beautiful handmade cards galore!

And then because it was Mother’s Day, the sun was out and no one can say no to me on Mother’s Day I asked everyone to dress up and take some pictures in a park. Which I have decided is what I want every Mother’s Day! The boys are in this great stage where they don’t mind dressing up and wearing nice shirts and they even like it and this one LOVES dressing up. She insists on picking her own clothes every day and always wants to wear a party dress.  

See-dandelions everywhere! 

We all headed home and Randy made us a yummy dinner that we ate in the fancy dining room, aka- the classrooom. A great day!

Bubble Magic

 As the weather started getting warmer we started spending more time at the Embassy. Parks were still closed and the Embassy had color teams that could never meet but on Blue days we could go play and ride bikes in the Embassy. We were always there with the same three families, so one chilly day in May the genius idea was born to have barbeques. We would be outside, we only hung out with each other, we all loved to cook and we all desperately needed to hang out. After three months of hardly any interaction our bubble was born and it was amazing. We all made one or two things and brought some meat to BBQ and it worked out perfectly. The 9 kids would play and roam the embassy grounds in packs and the adults would sit around and have wine and slowly cook and prepare dinner. When I think back to these weekend days, it was without a doubt the highlight of my Covid quarantine. In a normal world we would hardly have all been in the country most weekends with vacations and would have had other people to have dinner with, but at first we weren’t even allowed out of Kyiv, so it was just us, every week and it was lovely. 

This little one LOVED it. Her best friend John Harris took her for flower walks every week and then she would come back and give them to me. 

After a few weeks of Embassy barbeques, restrictions were lifted and we could finally spend time outside of Kyiv! We decided to take our barbeque bubble and go away for the weekend. We found a cute place a few hours away called Shishkin. We each rented our own little houses and barbequed outside all weekend. There was even a lake and pool, that were mostly empty, that we got to hung out at! It was the vacation we had all been craving for six months and even though it was just a few hours drive away, after months of limited interaction and no vacations it was like heaven! There were large enclosed grounds that the kids ran around and biked on all weekend, and the adults got to talk and hang out and feel like people again!

And we can’t forget everyone’s favorite bubble member- Reny!